Sunday, January 22, 2012

How do I salvage my relationship with my man?

We've been dating for 2 years now, living together most of that time, and we've been very happy. Lately, things have been slowing down between us (arguing, lack of physical intimacy, boringness, jealousy, the usual). I love him to death and I don't want to let go. What can we do to work on being happier together? Guys send chicks flowers and arrange fancy dinner dates....so what can a girl do to impress her man?

How do I salvage my relationship with my man?
Hi. My husband and I have been together for 18 1/2 years now and we've gone through periods of the same nature. People go through changes and you have to allow for them. I would sit down and talk to him about it and see if he's feeling the same way and wants to work it out. Try having one night where it's just you two and do something new like taking a one night stay somewhere. Stick to it.....Also, you may try showing some interest in something that you've always wanted to do. Sometimes men don't have that "thrill" of the chase anymore and need to see that you are independent. It doesn't mean you don't love him, but it may make him wake up a little. Be spontaneous! Sometimes that wears off after a while of being together. We've been doing that for a few months and our sex life has never been better! Try meeting in the afternoon, some time out of the ordinary, and getting intimate. Every couple is different, so first you've got to find out what he wants and what happiness is to him. Keep communicating. Hope this helps.
Reply:Every relationship has its ups and downs. The net can be a great tool for ideas to spice things up. I google all the time, just to spark my imagination for new positions or ways to say i love you, stuff like that. Type in all kinds of random stuff, u would be shocked at what u can come up with and spring it on him. Blow his mind, let him know u dig him as much as the day u laid ur eyes on him, start in the bedroom, I reccomend it. When intimacy is on point it is a lot easier to open the doors for communication, as long as u still feel those all flames for him. Good luck hun!!!
Reply:I agree with the whole sex thing.. that's probably what you two are lacking number one.





but onto some wholesome part, just be sweet, patient, or go to a trip where you two can be together and feel relaxed. get a hobby you two can do together.. cooking maybe? mountain climbing, joyride, picnics, go to movies, go to a casino, drive sports car, go to disneyland.. etc.





well those are only suggestions you two can do together.





if you only want to do the job, then I suggest cook for him his favorite ;)





..or going back to sex. go to http://www.askmen.com for articles... or watch porn together... exciting huh?
Reply:Really the only thing you can do is show him you really care about him. Sit him down and tell him how you really feel about him and that you want to stay with him. Don't give up. Some relationships survive if you both want it to.
Reply:sex..... dress sexy for him spices thing up make him want you


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